Course curriculum
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FACEBOOK IRON SHARPENS IRON GROUP
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STEP 1: Orientation (Welcome)
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STEP 1.1 Text Message Training "RULES"
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STEP 1.2 Text Message Training "EXAMPLES"
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STEP 2: (Stopping Her Rejection)
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STEP 2 Q&A CALL 1 (How To Text Her When She's Obstinate)
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STEP 2 Q&A CALL 2 (How To Use Text Messages For Positive Communication?)
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STEP 3: (How And Why To Stop Working On Your Relationship?)
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STEP 4: (Why I Keep Punishing Myself?)
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STEP 5: (Paradigm Shift 1 "Victor Mindset")
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STEP 6: (Trust And Emotional Safety)
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STEP 6 Q&A Call (Q&A AFTER STEP 6)
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STEP 7: (Season Of The Rock In The Desert)
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STEP 8: INTIMACY LETTER (Timing And Correct Apology)
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STEP 8 Q&A CALL #1 (How Do I Start My Intimacy Letter?)
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STEP 8 Q&A CALL #2 (How Do I Make My Intimacy Letter And My Heart More Intimate)
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STEP 8 Q&A CALL #3 (Will you Review My Final Copy Of My Intimacy Letter?)
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STEP 9: (Marriage Mission Statement)
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STEP 9 AFTER Q&A CALL: (Can I Bribe Her To Stay Married?)
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STEP 10: ("Her Humilitation")
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STEP 11 "Pursue Your Calling" What do you want?
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STEP 12: (Everything You Want Is Yours)
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STEP 12 AFTER Q&A CALL:
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STEP 12.1 (90 Day Letter)
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STEP 13 "Prioritizing Your Presence: Commanding Respect and Recognition"
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STEP 14: "Create Fomo" (Fear Of Missing Out)
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CALL DATE 07/19/26
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Jody Q&A TEXT MESSAGE TRAINING 1.3 (How Can I Build More Intimacy Via Text?) 08/15/24
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Johnny Q&A (Text Message Training Step 1.4) 09/26/24
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Ahmed Q&A (Am I Chasing Her or Making Her Curious?) 05/21/25
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Scott Q&A (Found Out Wife Cheated, What Do I Do?) 05/07/25
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Steven Q&A (Text Message Training) 04/23/2025
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David Q&A (How Do I go Next Level With Step 15?) 04/09/2025
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Steven Q&A (Advanced Text Message Training) 04/09/2025
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Pablo Q&A (Why Did She Kick Me Out After Things Were Going So Well?) 04/09/2025
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Dwight Wiley Q&A (What If She Takes The Postnup, But I’m Still The Only One Fighting How Do I Know She’s Really In?) 03/26/2025
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Jeremiah Q&A (How To Do Step 15 The Right Way) 03/13/25
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Hunter Q&A (How Should I Handle My Ex’s Angry Messages After Posting a Date Photo?) 03/07/25
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Hunter Q&A I Called Her Out, Got Her To Help Me, But Now She Wants Space And Boundaries, What Do I Do? 2/27/25
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Jeremy Q&A How Can I Improve My Relationship With My Wife, Since She's Angry And It's Affecting The Kids 2/27/25
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Jeff Q&A (How to Bribe In Legal Divorce) 12/20/24
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Q&A recording form Thanksgiving Night 11/28/24 9pm EST 🦃
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Jason's Q&A (Follow up Text Message Training) 10/11/14
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Q&A Johnny (Do I Give Her a Day To Breath or Keep Going at Her?)
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Q&A Jason (How Do We Move Over Her Getting Crazy About My Attorney Going After Her Half of The 401k?)
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Q&A Johnny (When to Pull Back From Talk or Push And How?)
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Q&A Jason (How To Get Trust Back)
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Q&A Johnny (Children Playing Parents)
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Q&A Jason (How Do I Handle The Holidays?)
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Q&A Corey (How Long Do I Continue To Apologize?)
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Q&A Jason (How Do I Draw Her Into Making Love?)
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Q&A Jason (How To Not Further Validate Her)
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Q&A Mark (How Can I Break The Day To Day Routine?)
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Q&A Joshua (How Do I Know When The Switch Happens?)
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Q&A Johnny (How Do You Tell If Everything Is Working?)
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Q&A Jason (Thoughts On Creative Ways To Show Love Or Small Steps Towards It Without Saying Love During Repair Process?)
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Q&A Jason (Why Is My Wife Still Requesting Divorce Trying And I'm Trying To Bribe Her From Doing It?
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Q&A Mark (How to do touch charges?)
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Q&A Mark (How Do I Start Apology / Intimacy Letter?)
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Q&A (How To Text Her When She's Obstinate) STEP 2
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Q&A Shane (When She Sees The Change, And Still Says Its To Late)
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Q&A Jason (When She Says You'll Be a Good Husband For Another Woman)
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Q&A Shane (How To Take It To The Next Level After Friendship?)
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Q&A Joshua (When And Will She Actually Start To Contact Me?)
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Q&A Jasons (What's The Only Thing That Works After I Read My Letter If The Letter Doesn't Restore The Marriage?)
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Q&A Jason (What Do I Do If My Wife See's A Divorce Stoppers Notification?)
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Q&A Mark (How Do I Deal With Different Moods?)
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Q&A Mark (Should I Listen To The Conviction To Fix My Character?)
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Q&A Adam (Should I Text Her First?)
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Q&A (How Do I Start My Intimacy Letter?) 3/27/24
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Q&A Josh (Is It Appropriate For Me To Wear My Wedding Ring?) 3/28/24
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Q&A Adam (What to Do When There's Disagreeing in Parenting?) 3/28/24
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Q&A Phillip (Wife Wants to Change Daughters Routine, I Don't Agree With it, How Do I Respond?) 3/28/24
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Q&A w/Adam (How Do I Make My Intimacy Letter And My Heart ❤️ More Intimate) 3/30/24
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STEP 8 Q&A CALL #3 (Adam) 4/2/24 Will you Review My Final Copy Of My Intimacy Letter?
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Q&A (Phillip) How To Respond When She Calls Upset? 4/2/24
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Q&A Jason (I've Been Telling My Wife Since You've Been In This Program That I Still Want Us To Work, Correct?) 4/8/24
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Q&A Joshua (When My Wife Retreats From Being Pulled Back In, What's My Next Step?) 4/8/24
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Q&A Adam (I Read The Intimacy Letter But We're Still Not talking, What Do I Do?) 4/8/24
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Q&A Adam (Should I Go Back And Follow Up, To Have a Second Conversation So I Can Turn That Into a Win?) 4/10/24
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Q&A Phillip (What Do I Do When She Blows up at Something I Did In The Past?) 4/14/2024
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Q&A Joshua (When My Wife Asks Why I Want to Quit tTherapy, What Should I Say?) 05/25/24
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Q&A Tony (How Do I Voice to Her That I No Longer Need The Marriage?) 05/25/24
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Q&A Adam (So How Do I Deal With Her Issues, How Do I Be Loving?) 05/25/24
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Q&A Steven (When My Wife Is Warm And Then Stone Cold, How Can I Stay In a Frame Instead of Feeling So Low?) 05/25/24
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Q&A Magnus (I've Started Texting Her, However, She Replies With Single One Liner Text. Am I Falling Behind In The Program?) 05/25/24
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Q&A Bucks (Is It Possible For my Wife to Go From Zero Into Loving Me Again?) 5/28/24
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Q&A Josh (What Strategies Can I Use to Make My Wife Attracted to Me Again?) 05/28/24
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Q&A Stephen (Is It Normal For Her to Go From HOT to COLD In an Instant) 05/28/24
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Q&A Stephen (If She's Trying to Move Is There Anyway I Can Lead Her Into Changing Her Mind) 05/28/24
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Q&A Joshua (Is It a Good Idea to Ask Her Where She Is at In Her Headspace?) 05/28/24
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Q&A Michael (If I Find Out About Her New Partner How Do I Respond?) 05/31/24
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Q&A Wesley (What Can I Do To Keep Her Engaged Consistently?) 05/31/24
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Q&A Wesley (How Do I Keep From Calling Her Out on Her Bullshit?) 05/31/24
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Q&A Josh (How Do I Respond To Her Text Messages?) 05/31/24
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Q&A Adam (When or Should I Try to Engage With My Wife, After I Reported Her For Stealing My Medication?) 05/31/24
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Maurice (Text Message Training 1 Q&A) 06/7/24
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Justin (Text Message Training 2 Q&A) 06/7/24
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Dwight (Text Message Training 3 Q&A) 06/7/24
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Rio (Text Message Training 4 Q&A) 06/7/24
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Josh (Social Media Posts Training Q&A) 06/7/24
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Q&A Roger (What do I do If She's Cold?) 06/21/24
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Roger Spencer Q&A (My Daughter is Stonewalling Me, What Can I do?) 07/22/24
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Stephen Q&A (You Advised to Back Right Off. I have and nothing from her. Where Do I Go Now?) 07/25/24
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Mike (Text Message Training 5 Q&A) 07/25/24
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Mike Q&A (My Wife Thought I Cheated Physically But I Never Did, What Should I Do?) 07/25/24
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Rafi Q&A (Should Try to Get to More Like Sexual Moments With Her?) 07/25/24
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Rafi Q&A (Should Try to Get to More Like Sexual Moments With Her?) 07/25/24
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Jeffrey Q&A (My Wife Is Using The Kids to Gaslight Me, How should I Respond?) 07/25/24
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Lewis Q&A (My Son Is a Enemy of The Marriage, What Can I Do?) 07/25/24
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Ricky Q&A (How do I Keep My Cool And Stay on Track When I Find Out my Spouse Might be Seeing Someone Else?) 07/29/24
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Anthony Q&A (My Wife Has Been Talking About Hooking up With Someone Else. How do I Break The Stagnation?) 07/29/24
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Burton Q&A (Should I Start With Mediation or go Straight to Court to Speed up the Divorce Process?) 07/29/24
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Justin Q&A (What’s a Subtle Way to Let my Wife Know About my New Date?) 07/29/24
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Dwight Q&A (I’m on Step 13 of my Marriage Recovery Plan. How Should I Handle Communication During This Time?) 07/29/24
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Jeff Q&A (Wife Isn’t Responding to The Steps. It Feels Like The More I Try, The More Distant She Becomes. What Should I do?) 07/29/24
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Vanderzanden Q&A (Wife Has Gone Cold After I Talked About Full Custody of the Kids. Is This Normal, And What Should I do?) 07/29/24
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TJ Q&A (Should I Agree to The Paper Divorce or Try to Delay It?) 07/29/24
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Daniel Q&A (I Went on a Date With The Wife of The Guy my Wife Is Cheating With And Got Valuable Information. Should I use it?) 08/01/24
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Brian Q&A (My Wife’s Distant Since She Found Out About my Attorney. Should I Continue or Start Over?) 08/01/24
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Terrell (My Wife’s Blocked Me. Text Again or Wait?) 08/01/24
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Wesley (Should I do The Intimacy Letter Even If Things Seem Okay?) 08/01/24
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Jeff (Should I Ask For The House And Full Custody Even If I Need a Mortgage Loan?) 08/01/24
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Roger Q&A (My Wife Says to Leave Things With my Daughter For Now, But I Really Want to Reconnect With Her. If I Reach Out, Will It Hurt my Progress With my Wife?) 08/01/24
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Ricky Q&A (Should I Worry That my Wife’s New Guy Is Her Friend’s Brother And She’s Blocked Me?) 08/01/24
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Rio Q&A (How do I Make a Platonic Relationship Romantic Despite Emotional Barriers And No Intimacy?) 08/08/24
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Anthony Q&A (Should I Write The Letter Even If She’s Texting Me Inconsistently And Going Silent Sometimes?) 08/08/24
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Colby Q&A (She Just Moved Out. Should I Wait To Start Step 1 of The Program or Dive In Now?) 08/08/24
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Dwight Q&A (My Wife Is Distant. Should I Tell Her I’m Dating Someone Else To Make Her Take Things Seriously?) 08/08/24
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Justin Q&A (How long Does It Usually Take For Step 14 To Work?) 08/08/24
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Jody Q&A (Wife’s Dating, Wants Divorce. I’m In OK, Job Hunting In GA. Stick To Step 8?) 08/08/24
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Josh Q&A (How Handle Communication And Expenses With My Ex With a Guardian Involved?) 08/15/24
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Jeff Q&A (My Wife Is Keeping The Kids From Me. What Should I Do?) 08/15/24
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Dwight Q&A (Should I Introduce My New Partner To My Kids Before Proposing?) 08/15/24
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Michael Q&A (How Can I Tell If My Wife Is Being Manipulative?) 08/15/24
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TJ Q&A (How do I Handle It Now That My Wife Thinks I'm Manipulative And Fake?) 08/15/24
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Ricky Q&A (My Wife Wants a Divorce—Should I File or Wait?) 08/19/24
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Mike Q&A (Got a One-Sided Settlement—Move To Step 9 or Wait?) 08/19/24
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Roger Q&A (When Is The Best Time To Share an Intimacy Letter While on a Holiday With My Wife?) 08/19/24
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Jeff Q&A (Should I Bribe My Wife With a Postnuptial To Keep The House?) 08/19/24
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Dwight Q&A (What Should I Do When my Wife Hesitates To Be Intimate Because She Has Doubts?) 08/19/24
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Colby Q&A (How Do I Support My Wife During False Allegations From Her Kids?) 08/19/24
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Michael Q&A (We're Still Fighting And Not Connecting. Should I Try Something Different?) 08/22/24
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Joshua Q&A (I’ve Done Step 13, But My Wife Still Won't Reconcile. Should I Start Step 14/) 08/22/24
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Mike Q&A (How do I Handle Her Demands While Trying to Save Our Marriage?) 08/22/24
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Dwight Q&A (Should I Keep Pursuing Her or Take a Step Back?) 08/22/24
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Colby Q&A (My Wife Filed For Divorce But Is Now Showing Signs of Reconciliation. Should I Hire a Lawyer?) 08/22/24
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Ricky Q&A (How do I Handle My Ex’s Mixed Signals And Emotions During Our Divorce?) 08/30/24
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Matt Q&A (How Long Does Step 14 Usually Take, And How Serious Should I Seem To My Ex?) 08/30/24
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Eric Q&A (My Wife Was Distant After We Had Sex. Is This Normal? What Should I do?) 08/30/24
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Anthony Q&A (My Wife Has Been on And Off Depressed For 18 Months. How Do I Get Her To Update Her Meds?) 08/30/24
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Jeff Q&A (Should I Finalize The Custody Agreement Before Introducing My Postnuptial?) 08/30/24
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Michael Q&A (What Should I do Next to Handle The Chaos And Move Forward Effectively?) 08/30/24
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Colby Q&A (How do I Handle My Wife’s Alimony Request And Keep Our Conversations Positive While We’re Apart?) 08/30/24
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Guy Q&A (Should I Ask Her to Talk to Our Boys About College Soon?) 08/30/24
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Jason Q&A (How Should Jason Handle His Spouse Avoiding Him After Receiving Financial Questions?) 08/30/24
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Dwight Q&A (How do I Make Step 14 Real, And Should I Be Pursuing Another Woman?) 08/30/24
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Raffi Q&A (How do I Talk to My Wife About Her Gym Clothes Without Causing Conflicts?) 08/30/24
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Should I Really Do Step 14? Aka step 15
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Jody (Text Message Training Q&A) 09/10/24
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Ricky (Follow Up Text Message Training) 09/19/24
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